Executive strategies and concierge support to help you resolve your divorce or family conflict.

Resolve. Transform. Thrive.

From divorce and separation to generational disputes within families, personal conflict can disrupt the lives of even the most successful executives and professionals.

Truce Resolutions provides concierge consulting and strategic insights to help you conquer life's pivotal moments so you can protect your legacy, reach resolution, and thrive in your next chapter.

Ways To Work With Me

I Offer

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DIVORCE AND FAMILY TRANSITION
CONSULTING

Divorce and disputes within families are disruptive personal transitions. We manage the process and guide you every step of the way:

Build your team of trusted professionals
Navigate the legal process
Concierge real time support when tempers flare
Strategic negotiation and proposal generation to reach resolution

Streamline the process, protect your interests, and communicate effectively to deescalate conflict and avoid collateral damage

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CONFIDENTIAL
MEDIATION FOR FAMILY DISPUTES

Full service on-line or in person mediation (Santa Barbara local):

Work with collaborative professionals to minimize conflict and avoid litigation
Reach resolution and create lasting agreements that prioritize civility, discretion, and mutual cooperation
Ensure confidentiality to keep personal affairs private

Confidentially resolve the dispute so you can move on while preserving your most important relationships.

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COMMUNICATION COUNSELING
FOR FAMILIES

Guidance for parents and families going through pivotal family transitions:

Facilitate difficult conversations
Protect and foster healthy relationships with children
Learn effective communication skills
Maintain the family unit

Preserve your most important relationships so the family remains strong and supported, even through divorce and difficult family transitions.

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I’m TamaraEsq.

A licensed attorney and real estate agent, certified mediator and conflict coach, founder of Truce Resolutions, and the collector of ancient & modern wisdom.

My mission is to fully support my clients through life's most difficult challenges and to help them embrace these transitions as an opportunity to transform and thrive in their next chapter.

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"Nothing short of amazing!"

Working with Tamara has been nothing short of amazing. In all honesty, I don’t think I could have gotten through this without her. The whole idea of a "divorce coach" was completely foreign to me. Not only has Tamara made the legal process seem less daunting and uncertain, but she’s helped me to realize that I am not responsible for my spouse’s happiness, and this realization has freed me to claim this next chapter of my life with hope and without guilt.

Tom N.
Physician

"I wish I had discovered these tools sooner."

After Tamara taught me how to work with the Enneagram and other communication tools, I began to feel compassion not only towards my ex-spouse, but for myself as I have also struggled with communication over the years. Her guidance has not only improved collaboration with my co-parent, but it has improved my relationship with my current partner as well.
I wish I had discovered these tools sooner.

Ryan A.
Entrepreneur

"The heaviness is not so heavy."

Quick note to say thank you and how I truly appreciate your advice, wisdom, and support! The heaviness is not so heavy... I am thankful this morning.

Satisfied Client

4 FREE RESOURCES

1. Pause Before You Respond (5 minute audio)
2. Pre-Divorce Checklist
3. What to Say When
4. Questions to Ask Divorce Professionals

Get instant access to help prepare you to move out, communicate effectively with your spouse, and ask important questions for potential mediators and attorneys.